Thursday, April 29, 2010
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Saturday, January 31, 2009
l'Italia, qui veniamo (Italy, here we come)
That was from Andy! He might have added, "Look out!"
We are very excited to be going over at the end of March for the Pro Loco naming ceremony in honor of my dad.
The festivities will take place the weekend of March 27th.
Mom, myself, Mike, Jeff, and Andy will be heading over thanks to a generous gift
from mom and dad. We are all excited and feeling so grateful for the opportunity to meet the people who also loved my dad and were a big part of his life. We are very pleased that Dan Aspromonte will be joining us as well. He has to pay his own way, sorry Dan!
We will fly into Rome and drive over just like dad did on his first trip.
Will post on our return. Traveling along there's a song we'll be singin'....
We miss my dad terribly. We know you do , too. Especially if you are still checking this blog :)
Abbracci!
Michelle
We are very excited to be going over at the end of March for the Pro Loco naming ceremony in honor of my dad.
The festivities will take place the weekend of March 27th.
Mom, myself, Mike, Jeff, and Andy will be heading over thanks to a generous gift
from mom and dad. We are all excited and feeling so grateful for the opportunity to meet the people who also loved my dad and were a big part of his life. We are very pleased that Dan Aspromonte will be joining us as well. He has to pay his own way, sorry Dan!
We will fly into Rome and drive over just like dad did on his first trip.
Will post on our return. Traveling along there's a song we'll be singin'....
We miss my dad terribly. We know you do , too. Especially if you are still checking this blog :)
Abbracci!
Michelle
Monday, November 10, 2008
Announcement of Pro Loco Naming
PROLOCO TORRICELLA PELIGNA “ALBERT PORRECA”
18 October 2008
Antonio Di Fabrizio, President of the Proloco
PROLOCO TORRICELLA PELIGNA “ALBERT PORRECA”. Yes, ALBERT PORRECA will guide this newly created association towards the cultural development Torricella so dearly needs. The PROLOCO of Torricella Peligna is determined to become a true DEMOCRATIC INSTITUTION, to carry out social policies that will promote our mountainous territory. We will do this through intercommunication, which will culturally enrich those in Torricella, and those who live beyond its borders in very different social contexts, and as result, have novel ideas and values to share. A study carried out by the Ministry of Social Policy indicated that volunteer associations are the only institutions that manage to enter decisively into the social fabric, to promote civil harmony among citizens and to offer services that often seem impossible to obtain otherwise. ALBERT PORRECA, a simple and humble man, represents for us someone who offered to the entire world, in the true spirit of volunteerism, a phenomenal means of mass communication that over the years will be vital for our cultural growth. ALBERT was a visionary, ten years ahead of his time, and it is for this reason he deserves to be remembered and honored. Torricella does itself a favor when it recognizes people like ALBERT PORRECA, who silently work to build something that all find useful. We will proudly bear the name of a man who became renown for having created something for everyone, and not, as often happens, for his own personal benefit.
In 2009, depending on the availability of the family of ALBERT PORRECA and DAN ASPROMONTE, we will hold the official ceremony.
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A note from Antonio to Dan Aspromonte that offers a little background to the announcement and the work my dad did to deserve this honor.
19 October 2008
Antonio Piccoli
Thank you. You are fantastic. It is an announcement that gives me enormous delight. On behalf of Torricellans the world over, I thank you. For it was through the hard word of Al Porreca that we have now come together to communicate via this extraordinary instrument called the Internet. Our five-year-old website, a sort of Wikipedia encyclopedia dedicated to Torricella, is incredible. You can find a bit of everything on it. If you type the name of a Torricellan in a search engine, the first site that always comes up is TorricellaPeligna.com. This did not come about on its own, out of thin air. It is the product of the tireless work of a man passionate about a town he did not know, but that he knew formed his “roots”. He spent entire days, and even nights, in front of his computer, uploading news, photos, genealogy and translations. Yes, translations -- there is no other site that is as bilingual as ours!! It is unfortunate that Al passed away so soon. Yet, in the brief time he was with us, he managed to amass so much material that he will never be forgotten. Torricella has done well to recognize his achievements, last year giving him the first ever Torricellan in the World award, and now naming the Pro Loco after him. Thanks again!
Here is a link to the website....visit often. My dad will be there.
http://torricellapeligna.com/
For those who are bilingual:
19 Ottobre 2008
Antonio Piccoli
Grazie, siete magnifici. E' un annucio che mi fa enormemente piacere. Grazie da parte mia e penso anche a nome di tutti quei torricellani sparsi per il mondo che, per mezzo del grande lavoro di Al Porreca, si ritrovano oggi a comunicare attraverso questo straordinario strumento che è la rete. Da cinque anni Torricella si ritrova ad avere un sito incredibile, dove puoi trovare di tutto, una specie di enciclopedia Wikipedia dedicata al nostro paese. Dove se digiti un nome di un torricellano sulla casella di ricerca, in prima fila ci trovi sempre torricellapeligna.com. E questo non è venuto da solo, così, dal nulla, c'è voluto il lavoro certosino ed instancabile di un uomo innamorato di un paese che non conosceva ma che sapeva essere la sua "radice". Giornate intere e anche nottate passate davanti al computer a caricare notizie, foto, genealogia, traduzioni. Sì, le traduzioni. Non esiste in giro un sito così, un sito bilingue!! Purtroppo ci ha lasciato molto presto, ma in questo brevissimo tempo abbiamo avuto in eredità una tale mole di dati che sarà impossibile dimenticarlo. Torricella se ne è accorta subito, l'anno scorso lo ha premiato con la prima edizione del Torricellano nel Mondo, quest'anno con la dedica dell'intestazione della Pro Loco. Non poteva fare di meglio!! Grazie ragazzi
18 October 2008
Antonio Di Fabrizio, President of the Proloco
PROLOCO TORRICELLA PELIGNA “ALBERT PORRECA”. Yes, ALBERT PORRECA will guide this newly created association towards the cultural development Torricella so dearly needs. The PROLOCO of Torricella Peligna is determined to become a true DEMOCRATIC INSTITUTION, to carry out social policies that will promote our mountainous territory. We will do this through intercommunication, which will culturally enrich those in Torricella, and those who live beyond its borders in very different social contexts, and as result, have novel ideas and values to share. A study carried out by the Ministry of Social Policy indicated that volunteer associations are the only institutions that manage to enter decisively into the social fabric, to promote civil harmony among citizens and to offer services that often seem impossible to obtain otherwise. ALBERT PORRECA, a simple and humble man, represents for us someone who offered to the entire world, in the true spirit of volunteerism, a phenomenal means of mass communication that over the years will be vital for our cultural growth. ALBERT was a visionary, ten years ahead of his time, and it is for this reason he deserves to be remembered and honored. Torricella does itself a favor when it recognizes people like ALBERT PORRECA, who silently work to build something that all find useful. We will proudly bear the name of a man who became renown for having created something for everyone, and not, as often happens, for his own personal benefit.
In 2009, depending on the availability of the family of ALBERT PORRECA and DAN ASPROMONTE, we will hold the official ceremony.
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A note from Antonio to Dan Aspromonte that offers a little background to the announcement and the work my dad did to deserve this honor.
19 October 2008
Antonio Piccoli
Thank you. You are fantastic. It is an announcement that gives me enormous delight. On behalf of Torricellans the world over, I thank you. For it was through the hard word of Al Porreca that we have now come together to communicate via this extraordinary instrument called the Internet. Our five-year-old website, a sort of Wikipedia encyclopedia dedicated to Torricella, is incredible. You can find a bit of everything on it. If you type the name of a Torricellan in a search engine, the first site that always comes up is TorricellaPeligna.com. This did not come about on its own, out of thin air. It is the product of the tireless work of a man passionate about a town he did not know, but that he knew formed his “roots”. He spent entire days, and even nights, in front of his computer, uploading news, photos, genealogy and translations. Yes, translations -- there is no other site that is as bilingual as ours!! It is unfortunate that Al passed away so soon. Yet, in the brief time he was with us, he managed to amass so much material that he will never be forgotten. Torricella has done well to recognize his achievements, last year giving him the first ever Torricellan in the World award, and now naming the Pro Loco after him. Thanks again!
Here is a link to the website....visit often. My dad will be there.
http://torricellapeligna.com/
For those who are bilingual:
19 Ottobre 2008
Antonio Piccoli
Grazie, siete magnifici. E' un annucio che mi fa enormemente piacere. Grazie da parte mia e penso anche a nome di tutti quei torricellani sparsi per il mondo che, per mezzo del grande lavoro di Al Porreca, si ritrovano oggi a comunicare attraverso questo straordinario strumento che è la rete. Da cinque anni Torricella si ritrova ad avere un sito incredibile, dove puoi trovare di tutto, una specie di enciclopedia Wikipedia dedicata al nostro paese. Dove se digiti un nome di un torricellano sulla casella di ricerca, in prima fila ci trovi sempre torricellapeligna.com. E questo non è venuto da solo, così, dal nulla, c'è voluto il lavoro certosino ed instancabile di un uomo innamorato di un paese che non conosceva ma che sapeva essere la sua "radice". Giornate intere e anche nottate passate davanti al computer a caricare notizie, foto, genealogia, traduzioni. Sì, le traduzioni. Non esiste in giro un sito così, un sito bilingue!! Purtroppo ci ha lasciato molto presto, ma in questo brevissimo tempo abbiamo avuto in eredità una tale mole di dati che sarà impossibile dimenticarlo. Torricella se ne è accorta subito, l'anno scorso lo ha premiato con la prima edizione del Torricellano nel Mondo, quest'anno con la dedica dell'intestazione della Pro Loco. Non poteva fare di meglio!! Grazie ragazzi
Monday, October 6, 2008
TRANSLATION : (with love to Lee and all the family, from Marion Porreca in England)
TRANSLATION : (with love to Lee and all the family, from Marion Porreca in England)
of details about the Mass on Sunday 5th October hekld in TOrricella PEligna to honour Al's life...
Freccianera (Mario Di Fabrizio) wrote:-
I was present at the Mass in memory of Al and I would confirm that Don Peppino gave an entirely unique homily; before the Mass he wanted to remember Al and thank him for all that he had done for Torricella. At the end of the Mass, as Ada Ficca says, Don Peppino read a prayer to the Madonna, with the title “I Return to You, Oh Dear Mother” asking us to think about Al who is turning towards the Madonna.
“I Return to You, Oh Dear Mother, at the close of day, wretched and tired of life and of suffering. Oh! How beautiful are these tranquil moments passed at your feet, in the faint light of the friendly lamp. Everything in your maternal breast and in the heart of the Eucharist of Jesus I copy and joy and pain, hard works and torments; all my passions still, from whence You destroy them and make me more beautiful, more worthy of Your Love and if the glances of Your Divine Son.
I give you the final kiss and the farewell of the evening, but in nmy heart I always carry You. I abandon myself sweetly to sleep, guard me like the pupil of Your eye, and beneath the shadow of Your maternal wings I rest, but my heart does not sleep. It still beats and raises up to You the Song of Songs of love. Oh Angels, sing hymns for mr on your golden harps, with harmonies of love to the Queen of Martyrs.
Stars which embelished the skies, crown the Mother for me my Lady of Sorrows. Flowers of the fields, perfume her for me.
Waves of the sea, that symbolise the immensity of Her pains, bless her for me.
Cedar of Lebanon, Cypress of Mount Sion, Palm of Cades, Rose of Jericho, specious Olive of the fields, all which represent their beauties, adorn her for me.
And you, Oh Daisy, small flower without any perfume, speak for me, little one, or else my lips shall be mute. All the Saints of Paradisepraise her and glorify her for me. …
O dear Mother, I beg for Your Maternal benediction together with that of the crucified Jesus. I kiss you so strongly and mournfully I whisper to you: A…Dio, A…Dio – Farewell, Farewell”.
That was a very beautiful prayer, moving and full of meanings.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank Lee for the kind thought she had of sending us all a photo remembrance of Al, and I would like to say to her that Al will always be within our hearts.
Greetings to everyone,
Freccianera.
In torricellapeligna@ yahoogroups. com, "Antonio Piccoli" wrote
Message from Ada Ficca
this morning at eleven o’clock, a Mass was said to celebrate Al’s memory. Many people were present.
The choir sang some beautifulsongs, Don Peppino excelled himself with a homily and at the end of the Mass he read a prayer to the Madonna Addolorata (Al died on 15th September which is the feast day of the Madonna Addolorata) which was truly moving, it was sent by Pierangela Badia from Aquila. At the end of the Mass, Giovanna, Marziale Di Marino’s wife, gave out a holy card in memory of Al to all those present.
Knowing that there was going to be a Mass said in memory of Al, Lee had sent these to her in advance.
______________________________________
Ero presente alla messa in memoria di Al e devo confermare che don Peppino nell'omelia è stato veramente unico; prima della messa ha voluto ricordare e ringraziare Al per il suo impegno per Torricella.
Alla fine della messa, come diceva Ada Ficca, don Peppino ha fatto leggere una preghiera rivolta alla Madonna, dal titolo "Ritorno a Te, o cara Madre" chiedendoci di pensare ad Al che si rivolge alla madonna.
"Ritorno a Te, o cara Madre, al declinare del giorno, misero e pur stanco di lavoro e di penare. Oh! Come sono belli questi taciti momenti trascorsi ai Tuoi piedi, al chiarore della lampada amica.
Tutto nel tuo seno materno e nel Cuore Eucaristico di Gesù io riverso, e gioia e dolori, fatiche e tormenti; tutte le mie passioni ancora, onde Tu le distrugga e mi renda più bello, più degno del Tuo Amore e degli sguardi del Figlio Tuo Divino.
Ti do l'ultimo bacio e l'addio della sera, ma nel mio cuore Ti porto sempre. Al sonno dolcemente mi abbandono, custodiscimi come la pupilla del Tuo occhio, E sotto l'ombre delle Tue ali materne io riposo, ma il mio cuore non dorme. Esso palpita ancora e Ti innalza
il cantico d'amore. O Angeli, inneggiate per me sulle vostre arpe dorate, con armonie d'amore alla Regina dei Martiri.
Stelle che i cieli ornate, coronate per me la Madre mia Addolorata.
Fiori dei prati, profumatela per me.
Onde del mare, che simboleggiate l'immensità dei Suoi dolori, beneditela per me.
Cedro del Libano, cipresso del monte Sion, palma di Cades, rosa di Gerico, ulivo specioso dei campi, tutti che raffigurate le sue bellezze, adornatela per me.
E Tu, o margherita, piccolo fiore senza profumi, parla per me, piccolissima, or che le mie labbra saranno mute. Santi tutti del Paradiso lodatela e glorificatela per me ....
O cara Madre, imploro la Tua Materna benedizione con quella di Gesù Crocifisso. Ti bacio forte forte e mestamente ti sussurro: A....Dio, A...Dio".
Una bellissima preghiera, commovente e piena di significati.
Colgo l'occasione per ringraziare Lee per il pensiero che ha avuto di inviarci una foto ricordo di Al, e voglio dirle che Al resta sempre nel nostro cuore.
Un saluto a tutti.
Freccianera
--- In torricellapeligna@ yahoogroups. com, "Antonio Piccoli"
ha scritto:
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Messaggio da parte di Ada Ficca
questa mattina, alle undici, è stata celebrata la messa in memoria di Al. Erano presenti parecchie persone.
Il coro ha cantato dei bei canti, Don Peppino si è superato nell'omelia e alla fine della messa è stata letta una preghiera alla Madonna Addolorata (Al è morto il 15 settembre festa della Madonna Addolorata) davvero toccante, inviata da Pierangela Badia dall'Aquila. Alla fine della messa Giovanna, la moglie di Marziale Di Marino, ha distribuito ai presenti un santino - ricordo di Al .
Lee, saputo che ci sarebbe stata una messa in memoria di Al, glieli aveva inviati .
of details about the Mass on Sunday 5th October hekld in TOrricella PEligna to honour Al's life...
Freccianera (Mario Di Fabrizio) wrote:-
I was present at the Mass in memory of Al and I would confirm that Don Peppino gave an entirely unique homily; before the Mass he wanted to remember Al and thank him for all that he had done for Torricella. At the end of the Mass, as Ada Ficca says, Don Peppino read a prayer to the Madonna, with the title “I Return to You, Oh Dear Mother” asking us to think about Al who is turning towards the Madonna.
“I Return to You, Oh Dear Mother, at the close of day, wretched and tired of life and of suffering. Oh! How beautiful are these tranquil moments passed at your feet, in the faint light of the friendly lamp. Everything in your maternal breast and in the heart of the Eucharist of Jesus I copy and joy and pain, hard works and torments; all my passions still, from whence You destroy them and make me more beautiful, more worthy of Your Love and if the glances of Your Divine Son.
I give you the final kiss and the farewell of the evening, but in nmy heart I always carry You. I abandon myself sweetly to sleep, guard me like the pupil of Your eye, and beneath the shadow of Your maternal wings I rest, but my heart does not sleep. It still beats and raises up to You the Song of Songs of love. Oh Angels, sing hymns for mr on your golden harps, with harmonies of love to the Queen of Martyrs.
Stars which embelished the skies, crown the Mother for me my Lady of Sorrows. Flowers of the fields, perfume her for me.
Waves of the sea, that symbolise the immensity of Her pains, bless her for me.
Cedar of Lebanon, Cypress of Mount Sion, Palm of Cades, Rose of Jericho, specious Olive of the fields, all which represent their beauties, adorn her for me.
And you, Oh Daisy, small flower without any perfume, speak for me, little one, or else my lips shall be mute. All the Saints of Paradisepraise her and glorify her for me. …
O dear Mother, I beg for Your Maternal benediction together with that of the crucified Jesus. I kiss you so strongly and mournfully I whisper to you: A…Dio, A…Dio – Farewell, Farewell”.
That was a very beautiful prayer, moving and full of meanings.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank Lee for the kind thought she had of sending us all a photo remembrance of Al, and I would like to say to her that Al will always be within our hearts.
Greetings to everyone,
Freccianera.
In torricellapeligna@ yahoogroups. com, "Antonio Piccoli"
Message from Ada Ficca
this morning at eleven o’clock, a Mass was said to celebrate Al’s memory. Many people were present.
The choir sang some beautifulsongs, Don Peppino excelled himself with a homily and at the end of the Mass he read a prayer to the Madonna Addolorata (Al died on 15th September which is the feast day of the Madonna Addolorata) which was truly moving, it was sent by Pierangela Badia from Aquila. At the end of the Mass, Giovanna, Marziale Di Marino’s wife, gave out a holy card in memory of Al to all those present.
Knowing that there was going to be a Mass said in memory of Al, Lee had sent these to her in advance.
______________________________________
Ero presente alla messa in memoria di Al e devo confermare che don Peppino nell'omelia è stato veramente unico; prima della messa ha voluto ricordare e ringraziare Al per il suo impegno per Torricella.
Alla fine della messa, come diceva Ada Ficca, don Peppino ha fatto leggere una preghiera rivolta alla Madonna, dal titolo "Ritorno a Te, o cara Madre" chiedendoci di pensare ad Al che si rivolge alla madonna.
"Ritorno a Te, o cara Madre, al declinare del giorno, misero e pur stanco di lavoro e di penare. Oh! Come sono belli questi taciti momenti trascorsi ai Tuoi piedi, al chiarore della lampada amica.
Tutto nel tuo seno materno e nel Cuore Eucaristico di Gesù io riverso, e gioia e dolori, fatiche e tormenti; tutte le mie passioni ancora, onde Tu le distrugga e mi renda più bello, più degno del Tuo Amore e degli sguardi del Figlio Tuo Divino.
Ti do l'ultimo bacio e l'addio della sera, ma nel mio cuore Ti porto sempre. Al sonno dolcemente mi abbandono, custodiscimi come la pupilla del Tuo occhio, E sotto l'ombre delle Tue ali materne io riposo, ma il mio cuore non dorme. Esso palpita ancora e Ti innalza
il cantico d'amore. O Angeli, inneggiate per me sulle vostre arpe dorate, con armonie d'amore alla Regina dei Martiri.
Stelle che i cieli ornate, coronate per me la Madre mia Addolorata.
Fiori dei prati, profumatela per me.
Onde del mare, che simboleggiate l'immensità dei Suoi dolori, beneditela per me.
Cedro del Libano, cipresso del monte Sion, palma di Cades, rosa di Gerico, ulivo specioso dei campi, tutti che raffigurate le sue bellezze, adornatela per me.
E Tu, o margherita, piccolo fiore senza profumi, parla per me, piccolissima, or che le mie labbra saranno mute. Santi tutti del Paradiso lodatela e glorificatela per me ....
O cara Madre, imploro la Tua Materna benedizione con quella di Gesù Crocifisso. Ti bacio forte forte e mestamente ti sussurro: A....Dio, A...Dio".
Una bellissima preghiera, commovente e piena di significati.
Colgo l'occasione per ringraziare Lee per il pensiero che ha avuto di inviarci una foto ricordo di Al, e voglio dirle che Al resta sempre nel nostro cuore.
Un saluto a tutti.
Freccianera
--- In torricellapeligna@ yahoogroups. com, "Antonio Piccoli"
>
Messaggio da parte di Ada Ficca
questa mattina, alle undici, è stata celebrata la messa in memoria di Al. Erano presenti parecchie persone.
Il coro ha cantato dei bei canti, Don Peppino si è superato nell'omelia e alla fine della messa è stata letta una preghiera alla Madonna Addolorata (Al è morto il 15 settembre festa della Madonna Addolorata) davvero toccante, inviata da Pierangela Badia dall'Aquila. Alla fine della messa Giovanna, la moglie di Marziale Di Marino, ha distribuito ai presenti un santino - ricordo di Al .
Lee, saputo che ci sarebbe stata una messa in memoria di Al, glieli aveva inviati .
Thursday, September 25, 2008
The Beautiful Service
Dad's service was a beautiful tribute to his life.
The Trinity Episcopal Church in Moorestown, NJ where it was held is just beautiful. We sang 2 hymns; Joy to Thee and On Eagle's Wings. The soloist performed Ave Maria, effortlessly and beautifully in Latin. Dad would have been pleased.
There were several readers
Lauri Porreca (Michael's wife) read the New Testament reading
Bobby Reasso (Michelle's son) read the Old Testament reading
Bob Reasso (Michelle's husband) read the Gospel reading
Also, several people spoke about dad's life
Michael Porreca (Dad's son) with help from Christian (his son)
Danielle Reasso and Carly Porreca (granddaughters)
Linda Nichi (Family Friend)
Charlie Porreca (Dad's brother)
Andrew Porreca (Dad's son) with help from fiance Amy Miller
Michelle Porreca Reasso (Me- Dad's daughter) with help from husband Bob Reasso
Their speeches are below in order of reading - enjoy - it really was a beautiful tribute and thanks to so many of you who were there or were there in spirit. Lots of love was flying around amongst all the tears. :)
Michael's with Christian
Thank you for coming and supporting us.
I am my father’s first son, and this is my son Christian. He’s the first son, of the first son, of the first son of the first son. It is a meaningful bond – one we will share forever.
Today is a tough day and a rough time. We will get through this. We’re strong and supportive – my father saw to that.
Today my message is one of joy – smile, be happy and laugh when you recall your favorite memories of my father.
So who is my father?
He was so many things to so many people. Whether you called him Al, or Grandpop or Dad, or Sonny, or Uncle Al, or Big Brother or Mr. Porreca or Fortunato, or My Darling. There’s even a rumor that they called him Sanctus Albertus Magnus in his ancestral roots of Torricella Peligna – Saint Albert the Great.
But if you spent any time with him at all you most certainly called him your friend.
Was he part of your favorite foursome? I’m sure there are more than a few groups out there looking for a fourth
Was he part of your favorite card game?
You may have been able to get some of his money on the golf course but I’d be willing to bet he took it back off you at a good game of Texas Hold-em.
My Dad loved hanging out with his friends and being one of the boys. He loved his Cigna buddies and all the good friends he came to know at his second career at WillowBrook. That’s part of who my Dad is.
Did he show you magic tricks like the disappearing penny? He’s been pulling that one off for over 45 years. Did he have you throw invisible rocks into a paperbag and tell you witty and sometimes silly jokes and make you laugh a lot?
My Dad was funny and fun – loved kids and they loved him. He was a great Grandfather. That’s part of who my Dad is.
Did he come to your dance recitals and to your games and sit quietly in the stands and admire your effort? Whether they were up the NJ turnpike or started after 11:00 pm. It was never about winning – it was about trying.
My Dad was supportive and consistent and knowing he was there always made things just right. He was a great father. That’s part of who my Dad is.
Here’s a scary one: Did you ever have to show him your homework? I know that doesn’t translate for many here. But if you did, be sure to bring an eraser.
My Dad was thorough and orderly and paid attention to the right details. That is part of who my Dad is.
Did he help steer your career, find you a job, hire you or give you advice to put things in the right perspective? When you were well into your career and lost your job (it happens) - did he threaten to go in and have a talk with your boss?
He was fatherly, career minded and a great big brother. That’s part of who my father is.
But of all the things he is, the one thing he loved the most was being a husband to my mom Lee.
I said it earlier – today hurts.
But talk to Andy – he’s the eternal optimist – he IS my Dad
Talk to Jeffrey – he’s quick witted, funny and serious - he IS my Dad
Talk to Michelle – she’s clever, and thoughtful, and has a great way about her that helps keep people connected – she IS my Dad
Talk to my wife Lauri, she’s beautiful, or my brother Bob or my sister Amy – he WAS their Dad.
Talk to my Mom – she is NOT my Dad – she is the Heart and Soul of my Dad
On a lighter note – I did learn a few things about my Father as we prepared the last few days. I went through his personal belongings at home. Your sock drawer can really tell a lot about a person. He loved watches – if you ever gave him one – he still has it. He loved eye glasses too. And if you ever gave him a nail clipper, well – first that’s a little weird – but if you did, he still has those too.
There are so many more thoughts and memories I could share. He will be missed by so many.
So please today share a smile and a story about my father – be happy for what we have. He wants it that way.
Danielle's with Carly
I am Danielle and this is Carly. We are proud granddaughters and we wanted to read a poem by Ralph Waldo Emerson that we think sums up our grandfather's life. Love you, Grandpop.
To win respect of intelligent people
And the affection of children;
To earn the approbation of honest critics
And endure the betrayal of false friends;
To appreciate beauty;
To find the best in others;
To give one's self;
To leave the world a little better,
Whether by a healthy child,
A garden patch,
Or redeemed social condition;
To have played and laughed with enthusiasm
And sung with exultation;
To know even one life has breathed easier
Because you have lived...
This is to have succeeded.
Linda's
Era la metà di gennaio, ma la settimana che Albert fu in Abruzzo pioggia e neve cessarono di cadere per lui, ed avemmo belle giornate di sole e temperature miti.
It was the depth of January, but the week Albert was in Abruzzo the rain and snow stopped for him, and there was a beautiful sun and warm temperatures. The day after his flight back home, all the hell of winter came down from the sky, freezing temperatures, high snow, icy roads. For this and for other strange circumstances I nicknamed him Fortunato - Lucky Albert. When he was in his Torricella for the first time, he met a clerk at the comune who had lived in Canada for long years - who like everyone Al met became a lifelong friend - and that night he phoned to me from Marziale's house - needless to say Al was received like an old friend at their table. Marziale was instrumental some years later, after much research, to find his living aunt, the wife of Albert's grandfather's youngest brother, who had died young in the 1936 war, and relatives in Pescara.
During that visit back in January 1999 he came to see me and was a welcome guest at my table, with my husband preparing his special carbonara in his honor. All the time he took notes in a kind of shorthand on a little notebook "so as not to forget all the special moments". And it is the special moments I was fortunate to share with Albert that I have written down in my memory. The next morning I took him on a visit to the Museum in L'Aquila, and we met a teacher and class of my school visiting too. Of course he made friends with them all - with that special graciousness that only true royalty in ancient Europe had, as a knight of the round table pure at heart - and showed a great fondness for a girl with the Down syndrome telling me aside "they die so young - I have a feeling for her parents in my heart". There was so much room in his heart, for everyone.
Uncle Charlies's
I’d like to tell you a couple of very short stories about my brother; things he either did or said that touched my life, so you can all know even more than you already know about him, and what kind of person he was, and then how I believe we should remember him.
When we were little kids, Al was my teacher. He loved to teach, and I’m sure many of you know that. With me, Al never missed an opportunity to let me know if I was on the right track or not. Like when we shared a bed in those early years before there was enough money for separate beds. I was like 6 or 7 and Al was around 9 or 10. He made sure he taught me exactly where my half of the bed ended and his began. And if I didn’t learn fast enough, his fist would come down and show me the line, very clearly. Yeah, he was also a very effective teacher. Doesn’t this sound like him?
Later on, when we were about high school age, in the summers we would sometimes ride the Frankford elevated train for fun. We would get on the first train, go up to the very front of the car and open the half door, and let the 45 mph wind blow into our faces. One day, for some reason, Al decided to spit down onto the track, which was speeding by. So he spit – yep, right into the wind, and the swirling wind stream caused it to fly back at us and then past us, and wow, it landed on the lap of this lady’s bright yellow dress, and she let out a shriek. Well, before I could even fully comprehend what had happened, in the blink of an eye, Al looked at me and said, “Yo Chal, why’d you do that?”. Well, I was so frozen, so much in shock that I couldn’t’ even speak, and Al was already on his way over to the woman with his handkerchief out. Can you believe it? So again, Al was teaching me - he was teaching me how fast I had to think in order not to get caught in a bad situation. Again, doesn’t this sound like him?
Of course these were just a couple of the many, many, many funny things that happened in our childhood, but there was so much more to Al - he had so many dimensions.
In later years, we both wound up in the same Delran neighborhood. In fact, all three brothers – Al, Bill, myself - wound up within a couple of blocks of one another, where we raised our kids, all of whom remain close to this day. Even our parents, in their late years, moved closeby,
We did the usual family picnics and parties while the kids were growing up, and helped our parents with their later years.
And finally, when we were both retired and had become grandfathers, Al really got me started in golf. He was working and playing at Willow brook, and he was always eager to play at a moment’s notice. We played, and of course he showed me how to swing the club, which club to use in given situations, and how to conduct myself on the course. Well, not everything he taught me got through.
Well you know, we’ve all heard samples of Al’s one-liners. And over the coming days and weeks, many more will come into my consciousness, I’m sure, but one for now: It was last year, and my two brothers and their wives were over our house while my friends Bob and his wife Mary, from Kentucky, were visiting. Bob and Mary are both from the extreme rural areas of that state and both have very deep southern drawls. Well, at some point Mary said something to Bill that started with “Hey Be-ill”. And without missing a beat, Al said, “geez Bill, I didn’t know your name had 2 syllables”. Hey, does that sound like him?
So anyway, when you think of Al, please don’t think of him with sickness, think of him with these quick one-liners. Yeah, think of a time where he made you smile…….. or he made you proud. As a very wise person once said, “If you keep them in your heart, they will always be there”.
Andrew's with Amy
I would like to start by apologizing to all the people in this world, who never met my Dad.
He always believed in us, and in people in general, and that gave us a reason to believe in ourselves and each other.
He took pride, joy, and excitement in helping others and he did so in many ways
-By connecting people to their ancestry
-By giving those around him an appreciation and desire for knowledge
-And sometimes just a big warm hug
He taught us to seek that knowledge and to question and understand not to just blindly accept things as they were.
He taught us all that there was always another side to the story. He often played devils advocate that way, even though sometimes you didn’t want to look at things from a different perspective. He used that as a tool to help us understand and yet again, gain more knowledge and truly have that appreciation for everyone and everything.
Growing up I have wonderful memories of watching baseball games with my Dad, which probably explains my passion for it today. He made it into a game. He had a knack for that…teaching us Life’s Biggest Lessons in the form of a game, which is how we learned.
I have been lucky enough to return the favor in a small way. For the past few years for Father’s Day we’d pick a Phillies Game to go to together, just Dad and me. He’d let me buy the ticket and a hot dog for him and we would sit and enjoy the game and I knew he knew how important that was to me, because it was just as meaningful to him. I am so grateful for those memories and for so much more…
As hard as it is to believe we’ve been very fortunate these last five months to get to see my Dad every day. To tell him how much we loved him and just how much he meant to us all. No matter how tough his day was in that hospital, he made it easier on us with his big warm smile and amazingly his very quick wit still, which he never lost.
He told me in these last months on many occasions how amazed he was with his family and friends and especially my Mom, who was there every day…you all were, through your visits, calls, blog entries, and really just your thoughts and prayers.
He was very proud to see that all of the Life Lessons he taught us were well received and are put into daily use by all of us.
Each day when I left the hospital, we had a special good-bye. I would give him a kiss, tell him how much I loved him and we would bump fists and explode, which in return always got me a great smile from him. For that memory I will be forever grateful.
-I love you Pop!
-None of it was wasted
-Mwah! (Blow a kiss)
-Kaboom! (Fist Love)
Michelle's with Bob
I’m Michelle and this is my husband, Bob and he is proud to be known as Bob’s fourth son. My dad always treated my husband as his fourth son and I was very grateful for the bond they shared.
I am very proud to be known as Al’s daughter.
But like my dad, I go by several names – some more appropriate for today than others - Today I’d like to think of myself as “Fortunato” – which means lucky in italian and as you heard it was the nickname that was given to my dad on his first trip to Torricella Peligna.
I am Fortunato to have had him for a father and a teacher.
He taught me so many things -
But he taught me one very important thing that he must have known I would need to get through today and that is to look for the good in every situation.
He taught me how to look for the good, when it was hardest to find.
And in his honor today I choose to look for the good.
My dad taught us everything by example. My dad saw the good in everyone – and I know that’s one of the many reasons people loved him so much. Everyone of you was always welcome at our table and he made sure you all knew you were special to him. So today I will let you all borrow my nickname - today we are all Fortunati to have known my dad.
My dad also shared another great gift with us. The gift of a good sense of humor.
Just recently he gave us this quote -
"It is important to find the humor in every situation. Every tragedy has humor in it and it reduces the trauma of the tragedy."
The gift of finding humor in every tragedy came in very handy in the last 5 months. We cried a lot but we also laughed a lot and he knew that and was proud of us for learning it so well, sometimes too well. .
We were all willing to sacrifice ourselves for the sake of a good joke.
Some of us sacrificed more than others and you should all - all be very afraid of what I decide to use the next time I want to try and make you smile.
I am also Fortunato because app 55 years ago my dad was in the right place at the right time. Apparently my mom was out shoppin and shoppin and she picked my dad.
And today I commend her for that – not just because she told me too – but really mom I commend you for picking the best dad, the best grandpop and the best father-in-law. We are all Fortunato.
And I commend him for picking you. You were his best friend, his biggest fan and forever his bride. Apparently, he ran out on quite a few card games just so he could get home to her. And he tried really hard to get home to her this time, too. He only fought for as long as he did for my mom. He loved her very much and he loved her very well for many years - and for that mom – you know you are Fortunato, too, just as he was. And like dad, you are strong and kind and optimistic and very funny and surrounded by people who love you and will help you celebrate his life and move you forward.
How could I possibly speak about my dad without acknowledging “his boys”. I know all of you ladies are totally jealous that I got to grow up with these 3 handsome guys! If you didn’t have a crush on my dad - you most likely werein love with one or more of my brothers. I have to tell you to keep your hands off Mike and Andy they are well-spoken for but feel free to be “hands on” with Jeff – just trying to help a brother in his time of need!
I am not one of the boys- but they never make me feel like that – they even let me golf with them – probably because my dad told them they had to. And for that I am also very Fortunato because they are in my favorite foursome.
Not only do they look just like my dad – more importantly they inherited all of his wonderful traits. Strong, funny, optimistic and most importantly I think, they are all very kind.
Michael spoke about the other boys so I think they won’t mind if I just speak about him for a minute.
He is our captain now.
And we are in good hands. I believe that when God gives you something difficult to handle he gives you the tools and the dignity to deal with it. God and Dad gave us Michael. You have big moccasins to fill – but you have proven time and time again that are up to the task.
I bestow on you the title that Dad would want you to have - Sanctus Michaelmas Magusus! We are going to enjoy calling you that!
My dad was so very proud of him and all of us. And we are fortunato that we knew that – always. So many people that came through the line last night that were friends of my dad and said “of course, we know you - your dad talked about you all the time”. We knew we were special and for that we are fortunato.
I could talk to you all day about my dad and my family and I’m sure I will do just that. I hope you do too. Talk to one another and to us and about what he meant to you and tell your funniest Al Porreca story. Bobby Cuva better be telling the story of my dad’s car accident last year. That is one my favorite stories. In my mind my dad was ALWAYS right – except that time.
But it’s a funny story and my dad would absolutely not mind sacrificing himself so we could get a laugh.
So let’s do what Sanctus Michaelmas told us to do and be happy today. Celebrate the fact that you knew him and that he believed you were special, too. Try to laugh more than you cry and remember we are all Fortunato!
My last words have to be my dad’s…
I miss you all.
Ciao a Tutti!
The Trinity Episcopal Church in Moorestown, NJ where it was held is just beautiful. We sang 2 hymns; Joy to Thee and On Eagle's Wings. The soloist performed Ave Maria, effortlessly and beautifully in Latin. Dad would have been pleased.
There were several readers
Lauri Porreca (Michael's wife) read the New Testament reading
Bobby Reasso (Michelle's son) read the Old Testament reading
Bob Reasso (Michelle's husband) read the Gospel reading
Also, several people spoke about dad's life
Michael Porreca (Dad's son) with help from Christian (his son)
Danielle Reasso and Carly Porreca (granddaughters)
Linda Nichi (Family Friend)
Charlie Porreca (Dad's brother)
Andrew Porreca (Dad's son) with help from fiance Amy Miller
Michelle Porreca Reasso (Me- Dad's daughter) with help from husband Bob Reasso
Their speeches are below in order of reading - enjoy - it really was a beautiful tribute and thanks to so many of you who were there or were there in spirit. Lots of love was flying around amongst all the tears. :)
Michael's with Christian
Thank you for coming and supporting us.
I am my father’s first son, and this is my son Christian. He’s the first son, of the first son, of the first son of the first son. It is a meaningful bond – one we will share forever.
Today is a tough day and a rough time. We will get through this. We’re strong and supportive – my father saw to that.
Today my message is one of joy – smile, be happy and laugh when you recall your favorite memories of my father.
So who is my father?
He was so many things to so many people. Whether you called him Al, or Grandpop or Dad, or Sonny, or Uncle Al, or Big Brother or Mr. Porreca or Fortunato, or My Darling. There’s even a rumor that they called him Sanctus Albertus Magnus in his ancestral roots of Torricella Peligna – Saint Albert the Great.
But if you spent any time with him at all you most certainly called him your friend.
Was he part of your favorite foursome? I’m sure there are more than a few groups out there looking for a fourth
Was he part of your favorite card game?
You may have been able to get some of his money on the golf course but I’d be willing to bet he took it back off you at a good game of Texas Hold-em.
My Dad loved hanging out with his friends and being one of the boys. He loved his Cigna buddies and all the good friends he came to know at his second career at WillowBrook. That’s part of who my Dad is.
Did he show you magic tricks like the disappearing penny? He’s been pulling that one off for over 45 years. Did he have you throw invisible rocks into a paperbag and tell you witty and sometimes silly jokes and make you laugh a lot?
My Dad was funny and fun – loved kids and they loved him. He was a great Grandfather. That’s part of who my Dad is.
Did he come to your dance recitals and to your games and sit quietly in the stands and admire your effort? Whether they were up the NJ turnpike or started after 11:00 pm. It was never about winning – it was about trying.
My Dad was supportive and consistent and knowing he was there always made things just right. He was a great father. That’s part of who my Dad is.
Here’s a scary one: Did you ever have to show him your homework? I know that doesn’t translate for many here. But if you did, be sure to bring an eraser.
My Dad was thorough and orderly and paid attention to the right details. That is part of who my Dad is.
Did he help steer your career, find you a job, hire you or give you advice to put things in the right perspective? When you were well into your career and lost your job (it happens) - did he threaten to go in and have a talk with your boss?
He was fatherly, career minded and a great big brother. That’s part of who my father is.
But of all the things he is, the one thing he loved the most was being a husband to my mom Lee.
I said it earlier – today hurts.
But talk to Andy – he’s the eternal optimist – he IS my Dad
Talk to Jeffrey – he’s quick witted, funny and serious - he IS my Dad
Talk to Michelle – she’s clever, and thoughtful, and has a great way about her that helps keep people connected – she IS my Dad
Talk to my wife Lauri, she’s beautiful, or my brother Bob or my sister Amy – he WAS their Dad.
Talk to my Mom – she is NOT my Dad – she is the Heart and Soul of my Dad
On a lighter note – I did learn a few things about my Father as we prepared the last few days. I went through his personal belongings at home. Your sock drawer can really tell a lot about a person. He loved watches – if you ever gave him one – he still has it. He loved eye glasses too. And if you ever gave him a nail clipper, well – first that’s a little weird – but if you did, he still has those too.
There are so many more thoughts and memories I could share. He will be missed by so many.
So please today share a smile and a story about my father – be happy for what we have. He wants it that way.
Danielle's with Carly
I am Danielle and this is Carly. We are proud granddaughters and we wanted to read a poem by Ralph Waldo Emerson that we think sums up our grandfather's life. Love you, Grandpop.
To Have Succeeded
To laugh often and love much:To win respect of intelligent people
And the affection of children;
To earn the approbation of honest critics
And endure the betrayal of false friends;
To appreciate beauty;
To find the best in others;
To give one's self;
To leave the world a little better,
Whether by a healthy child,
A garden patch,
Or redeemed social condition;
To have played and laughed with enthusiasm
And sung with exultation;
To know even one life has breathed easier
Because you have lived...
This is to have succeeded.
Linda's
Era la metà di gennaio, ma la settimana che Albert fu in Abruzzo pioggia e neve cessarono di cadere per lui, ed avemmo belle giornate di sole e temperature miti.
It was the depth of January, but the week Albert was in Abruzzo the rain and snow stopped for him, and there was a beautiful sun and warm temperatures. The day after his flight back home, all the hell of winter came down from the sky, freezing temperatures, high snow, icy roads. For this and for other strange circumstances I nicknamed him Fortunato - Lucky Albert. When he was in his Torricella for the first time, he met a clerk at the comune who had lived in Canada for long years - who like everyone Al met became a lifelong friend - and that night he phoned to me from Marziale's house - needless to say Al was received like an old friend at their table. Marziale was instrumental some years later, after much research, to find his living aunt, the wife of Albert's grandfather's youngest brother, who had died young in the 1936 war, and relatives in Pescara.
During that visit back in January 1999 he came to see me and was a welcome guest at my table, with my husband preparing his special carbonara in his honor. All the time he took notes in a kind of shorthand on a little notebook "so as not to forget all the special moments". And it is the special moments I was fortunate to share with Albert that I have written down in my memory. The next morning I took him on a visit to the Museum in L'Aquila, and we met a teacher and class of my school visiting too. Of course he made friends with them all - with that special graciousness that only true royalty in ancient Europe had, as a knight of the round table pure at heart - and showed a great fondness for a girl with the Down syndrome telling me aside "they die so young - I have a feeling for her parents in my heart". There was so much room in his heart, for everyone.
Uncle Charlies's
I’d like to tell you a couple of very short stories about my brother; things he either did or said that touched my life, so you can all know even more than you already know about him, and what kind of person he was, and then how I believe we should remember him.
When we were little kids, Al was my teacher. He loved to teach, and I’m sure many of you know that. With me, Al never missed an opportunity to let me know if I was on the right track or not. Like when we shared a bed in those early years before there was enough money for separate beds. I was like 6 or 7 and Al was around 9 or 10. He made sure he taught me exactly where my half of the bed ended and his began. And if I didn’t learn fast enough, his fist would come down and show me the line, very clearly. Yeah, he was also a very effective teacher. Doesn’t this sound like him?
Later on, when we were about high school age, in the summers we would sometimes ride the Frankford elevated train for fun. We would get on the first train, go up to the very front of the car and open the half door, and let the 45 mph wind blow into our faces. One day, for some reason, Al decided to spit down onto the track, which was speeding by. So he spit – yep, right into the wind, and the swirling wind stream caused it to fly back at us and then past us, and wow, it landed on the lap of this lady’s bright yellow dress, and she let out a shriek. Well, before I could even fully comprehend what had happened, in the blink of an eye, Al looked at me and said, “Yo Chal, why’d you do that?”. Well, I was so frozen, so much in shock that I couldn’t’ even speak, and Al was already on his way over to the woman with his handkerchief out. Can you believe it? So again, Al was teaching me - he was teaching me how fast I had to think in order not to get caught in a bad situation. Again, doesn’t this sound like him?
Of course these were just a couple of the many, many, many funny things that happened in our childhood, but there was so much more to Al - he had so many dimensions.
In later years, we both wound up in the same Delran neighborhood. In fact, all three brothers – Al, Bill, myself - wound up within a couple of blocks of one another, where we raised our kids, all of whom remain close to this day. Even our parents, in their late years, moved closeby,
We did the usual family picnics and parties while the kids were growing up, and helped our parents with their later years.
And finally, when we were both retired and had become grandfathers, Al really got me started in golf. He was working and playing at Willow brook, and he was always eager to play at a moment’s notice. We played, and of course he showed me how to swing the club, which club to use in given situations, and how to conduct myself on the course. Well, not everything he taught me got through.
Well you know, we’ve all heard samples of Al’s one-liners. And over the coming days and weeks, many more will come into my consciousness, I’m sure, but one for now: It was last year, and my two brothers and their wives were over our house while my friends Bob and his wife Mary, from Kentucky, were visiting. Bob and Mary are both from the extreme rural areas of that state and both have very deep southern drawls. Well, at some point Mary said something to Bill that started with “Hey Be-ill”. And without missing a beat, Al said, “geez Bill, I didn’t know your name had 2 syllables”. Hey, does that sound like him?
So anyway, when you think of Al, please don’t think of him with sickness, think of him with these quick one-liners. Yeah, think of a time where he made you smile…….. or he made you proud. As a very wise person once said, “If you keep them in your heart, they will always be there”.
Andrew's with Amy
I would like to start by apologizing to all the people in this world, who never met my Dad.
He always believed in us, and in people in general, and that gave us a reason to believe in ourselves and each other.
He took pride, joy, and excitement in helping others and he did so in many ways
-By connecting people to their ancestry
-By giving those around him an appreciation and desire for knowledge
-And sometimes just a big warm hug
He taught us to seek that knowledge and to question and understand not to just blindly accept things as they were.
He taught us all that there was always another side to the story. He often played devils advocate that way, even though sometimes you didn’t want to look at things from a different perspective. He used that as a tool to help us understand and yet again, gain more knowledge and truly have that appreciation for everyone and everything.
Growing up I have wonderful memories of watching baseball games with my Dad, which probably explains my passion for it today. He made it into a game. He had a knack for that…teaching us Life’s Biggest Lessons in the form of a game, which is how we learned.
I have been lucky enough to return the favor in a small way. For the past few years for Father’s Day we’d pick a Phillies Game to go to together, just Dad and me. He’d let me buy the ticket and a hot dog for him and we would sit and enjoy the game and I knew he knew how important that was to me, because it was just as meaningful to him. I am so grateful for those memories and for so much more…
As hard as it is to believe we’ve been very fortunate these last five months to get to see my Dad every day. To tell him how much we loved him and just how much he meant to us all. No matter how tough his day was in that hospital, he made it easier on us with his big warm smile and amazingly his very quick wit still, which he never lost.
He told me in these last months on many occasions how amazed he was with his family and friends and especially my Mom, who was there every day…you all were, through your visits, calls, blog entries, and really just your thoughts and prayers.
He was very proud to see that all of the Life Lessons he taught us were well received and are put into daily use by all of us.
Each day when I left the hospital, we had a special good-bye. I would give him a kiss, tell him how much I loved him and we would bump fists and explode, which in return always got me a great smile from him. For that memory I will be forever grateful.
-I love you Pop!
-None of it was wasted
-Mwah! (Blow a kiss)
-Kaboom! (Fist Love)
Michelle's with Bob
I’m Michelle and this is my husband, Bob and he is proud to be known as Bob’s fourth son. My dad always treated my husband as his fourth son and I was very grateful for the bond they shared.
I am very proud to be known as Al’s daughter.
But like my dad, I go by several names – some more appropriate for today than others - Today I’d like to think of myself as “Fortunato” – which means lucky in italian and as you heard it was the nickname that was given to my dad on his first trip to Torricella Peligna.
I am Fortunato to have had him for a father and a teacher.
He taught me so many things -
But he taught me one very important thing that he must have known I would need to get through today and that is to look for the good in every situation.
He taught me how to look for the good, when it was hardest to find.
And in his honor today I choose to look for the good.
My dad taught us everything by example. My dad saw the good in everyone – and I know that’s one of the many reasons people loved him so much. Everyone of you was always welcome at our table and he made sure you all knew you were special to him. So today I will let you all borrow my nickname - today we are all Fortunati to have known my dad.
My dad also shared another great gift with us. The gift of a good sense of humor.
Just recently he gave us this quote -
"It is important to find the humor in every situation. Every tragedy has humor in it and it reduces the trauma of the tragedy."
The gift of finding humor in every tragedy came in very handy in the last 5 months. We cried a lot but we also laughed a lot and he knew that and was proud of us for learning it so well, sometimes too well. .
We were all willing to sacrifice ourselves for the sake of a good joke.
Some of us sacrificed more than others and you should all - all be very afraid of what I decide to use the next time I want to try and make you smile.
I am also Fortunato because app 55 years ago my dad was in the right place at the right time. Apparently my mom was out shoppin and shoppin and she picked my dad.
And today I commend her for that – not just because she told me too – but really mom I commend you for picking the best dad, the best grandpop and the best father-in-law. We are all Fortunato.
And I commend him for picking you. You were his best friend, his biggest fan and forever his bride. Apparently, he ran out on quite a few card games just so he could get home to her. And he tried really hard to get home to her this time, too. He only fought for as long as he did for my mom. He loved her very much and he loved her very well for many years - and for that mom – you know you are Fortunato, too, just as he was. And like dad, you are strong and kind and optimistic and very funny and surrounded by people who love you and will help you celebrate his life and move you forward.
How could I possibly speak about my dad without acknowledging “his boys”. I know all of you ladies are totally jealous that I got to grow up with these 3 handsome guys! If you didn’t have a crush on my dad - you most likely werein love with one or more of my brothers. I have to tell you to keep your hands off Mike and Andy they are well-spoken for but feel free to be “hands on” with Jeff – just trying to help a brother in his time of need!
I am not one of the boys- but they never make me feel like that – they even let me golf with them – probably because my dad told them they had to. And for that I am also very Fortunato because they are in my favorite foursome.
Not only do they look just like my dad – more importantly they inherited all of his wonderful traits. Strong, funny, optimistic and most importantly I think, they are all very kind.
Michael spoke about the other boys so I think they won’t mind if I just speak about him for a minute.
He is our captain now.
And we are in good hands. I believe that when God gives you something difficult to handle he gives you the tools and the dignity to deal with it. God and Dad gave us Michael. You have big moccasins to fill – but you have proven time and time again that are up to the task.
I bestow on you the title that Dad would want you to have - Sanctus Michaelmas Magusus! We are going to enjoy calling you that!
My dad was so very proud of him and all of us. And we are fortunato that we knew that – always. So many people that came through the line last night that were friends of my dad and said “of course, we know you - your dad talked about you all the time”. We knew we were special and for that we are fortunato.
I could talk to you all day about my dad and my family and I’m sure I will do just that. I hope you do too. Talk to one another and to us and about what he meant to you and tell your funniest Al Porreca story. Bobby Cuva better be telling the story of my dad’s car accident last year. That is one my favorite stories. In my mind my dad was ALWAYS right – except that time.
But it’s a funny story and my dad would absolutely not mind sacrificing himself so we could get a laugh.
So let’s do what Sanctus Michaelmas told us to do and be happy today. Celebrate the fact that you knew him and that he believed you were special, too. Try to laugh more than you cry and remember we are all Fortunato!
My last words have to be my dad’s…
I miss you all.
Ciao a Tutti!
Michelle the Godess!
To Michelle!
You are unbelievable and have been an angel and an unbelievable connection to your dad and your family. I just wanted you to know how much you are appreciated for all the work you've done for the last 6 months keeping everyone informed about dad. I know I didn't call your mom every other night and bother her with wanting to know details because of this blog. I know I can speak for alot of people when I say you have been informative, hysterical, positive and a genius in keeping people informed with your wit and personality and it is a true testimate to your dad because he would have been the same way and done the same things as you did. POSITIVE! You are sooooo your dad! The funeral was one of the saddest I've ever witnessed because it was such a loss to all! His body was just sooo tired! Thank you so much for all of your hard work and dedication to all of your dad's fans (and your family in general). I can't tell you how much your effort and flawless reporting is appreciated! I know your dad is proud and unbelievably loved by all he ever met.
Thanks again for all your efforts! You are a sweetheart!
Love you to pieces! Kim and Ryan
You are unbelievable and have been an angel and an unbelievable connection to your dad and your family. I just wanted you to know how much you are appreciated for all the work you've done for the last 6 months keeping everyone informed about dad. I know I didn't call your mom every other night and bother her with wanting to know details because of this blog. I know I can speak for alot of people when I say you have been informative, hysterical, positive and a genius in keeping people informed with your wit and personality and it is a true testimate to your dad because he would have been the same way and done the same things as you did. POSITIVE! You are sooooo your dad! The funeral was one of the saddest I've ever witnessed because it was such a loss to all! His body was just sooo tired! Thank you so much for all of your hard work and dedication to all of your dad's fans (and your family in general). I can't tell you how much your effort and flawless reporting is appreciated! I know your dad is proud and unbelievably loved by all he ever met.
Thanks again for all your efforts! You are a sweetheart!
Love you to pieces! Kim and Ryan
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